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"going out of their way to use 'they' instead of another pronoun in all contexts" is something I run into far FAR too often as a traditionally masculine transgender man. I have to specifically list my he/him pronouns in the right place on my bio, and lead with my pronouns when I introduce myself (pronouns specifically, not other gendered terms like "man" or "son"), or these sorts of people will say "I'm a trans ally, I didn't want to assume your gender" when I tell them to stop misgendering me.
And sometimes even that doesn't work and all I get back is some speil about how singular they for everyone is peak allyship.
I did not spend hundreds of dollars and mountains on paperwork on legal name and gender marker changes just for people to still refuse to call me by my actual pronouns, except this time it's progressive.